Quite interesting that I pulled 3 Oracle cards from ‘The Healing Mantra’ deck with such a similar connection….
So collectively this may reach and resonate for most of us
Overcoming Fear – I will transcend every loss.
Resolving Anger – Conflict reminds me when I need more space for myself.
Destructing Doubt – Only my beliefs are in my way.
Although we may not realize that fear runs deep in our core… the plus side is so does our capability to manage or overcome them…
Coping with fears is a process… just like everything else , you need time, patience and understanding- so be kind to yourself and allow the process to flow.
You will go through stages of grief and the most common is Anger- this is what I call the volcano of suppression of deep regrets, disappointment, shame, resentments and loss…. And if it’s not acknowledged or understood- soon the volcano bursts… leading to a much harsher situation and life sentence…Rage.
Psychology recognizes 5 universal fears- aka known as ‘Core Fears’ which have been thought as possibly innate to our makeup as human beings- only to grow through conditioning increasingly throughout our childhood.
1) fear of abandonment
2) loss of identity
3) loss of meaning
4) loss of purpose
5) fear of death, including the fear of sickness and pain.)
All of which is a power struggle of control. So it’s detrimental to understand what you can and can’t control.
As a child we have no say, warrant or choice. So remaining as a victim you feel powerless and are unable to connect with the fragments of ourselves that left us stuck, imprisoned and alone.
Taking your power back is becoming aware that you are the driving force in managing your emotions…becoming empowered is when you finally acknowledge that you are accountable and take action to do your due diligence in emotional growth and maturity.
Indeed, we all may have been victims – but there comes a point when you must acknowledge you have moved ‘past’ this identity/label – you have survived- and now it’s time to step up and into your power, ready to move onward and forward in growth.
Be empowered,
Georgette Thomas 🌹
Oracle cards- “The Healing Mantra”
Whispers to Wings of Authenticity 