Coach D’s Purpose Continues …

Darlene Domenica DeBellis has been inspirational for so many. And not only do I deeply appreciate her unbelievable loyalty and devotion as a friend- I am honored to have had the opportunity 2 years ago when she started this new path of life coaching and her online community, to write as she shared her story. And today I am honored and so grateful that she has favorably accepted my invitation again, to give us an updated article on her journey these last couple of years. And yes, her faithful loving Labrador and companion ‘Bailee’ is still nestled by her side. 

‘People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.’
-Maya Angelou

One of Darlene’s- aka Coach D’s, favorite quotes today that inspires and resonates with her on many different levels. And Darlene has inspired others to believe in the process with such compassion to the progress upon this journey called life. Her purpose continues on and keeps building as her platform of support and her compassionate system of care speaks for itself. 

“ My supportive online community of care called ‘Beauty for Ashes’ has doubled since 2021 and my hope is it will continue to grow as we all continue to empower each other and grow together.”

Darlene has kept her online family/community as safe as possible. Keeping those who have undermined anyone’s character or integrity, at bay. She certainly isn’t afraid to speak up when it has been proven necessary, however her compassion and respect for others has never wavered because she has such a deeper understanding of what it’s like to suffer great pain and loss. 

And no matter what she has experienced, she has chosen empowerment over opposition and love over fear. Thus her beautiful divine heart and soul connected has grounded her in mindfulness and purpose unto coaching and inspiring others.  

Having hope and faith is the passion Coach D represents as a life coach. She is one of the most intelligent and strongest women I know. She has given every effort to support the well being of others and to raise the quality of her life, quality of her life coaching and to look more towards the future instead of dwelling in the past.

“What’s changed since our last interview is Now I only look back to see how far I’ve come and I am more in the moment and looking forward to the future. “

DeBellis currently has 2 certifications and is working on her 3rd. “It’s given me the ability to stand on the outside and look in with a different perspective..” she states. “And learning from the other side has helped my confidence, awareness and clarity as well as the ability to know how to use the tools given with a healthier outlook.”

Darlene has experienced life in the most difficult and challenging ways, from her childhood to even her present. But she is mindful and understands what’s best for her well being.  

“I became a certified life coach to develop a sound foundation, to form a much more healthier relationship with others, personally and professionally. And now I seem to have a better understanding of myself, by looking in from the other side of things.”

She continues to do what’s necessary to keep herself on track to being the best she can be for her clients, children, grandchildren, loved ones, community and most importantly her heart, mind and soul… and there is nothing more beautiful than having a friend who understands you in such a deeper and compassionate way-…. I should know… lol 

I love you Darlene and hope that we can revisit this again in 2 years from now- setting this goal ! It’s what we as life coaches and friends do!! Here is my dedication to our future commitment!

Darlene, my friend and fellow Life Coach, thrives in her network and outlook today. She has a great sense that we all are a work in progress and there’s always lessons to learn and avenues to explore- that’s the beauty of change- you grow. 

Enjoy, Georgette Thomas, Life Coach