Trapped in an…. Awkward Situation ?

Trapped in an…. Awkward situation ?
Like being trapped in an elevator, many will engage in moments during the holidays when invited to social gatherings or events…not really sure who will be attending or perhaps you don’t know anyone at all. These situations can perspire anxiety and stress- soon being in a room full of others, having moments of awkwardness as you look around for an exit… this can be overwhelmingly stressful. But I hope you decide to make the effort through branching out and possibly expanding your relationships or even your personal network.

Hint: Sometimes we have to be proactive instead of being reactive- so perhaps a little preparation, other than looking your best, may take away some of the angst and can be helpful when engaging with others during moments we can’t find a way around it or an exit …. Bringing some topics of conversation!
This is a proactive approach which carries a little confidence along- a suggestion is to make sure these topics are easy, light as well as less complicated … and if you aren’t sure what topics would work – then I have 3 topics that just might be suitable for all occasions…

First topic “Music”
How many concerts have you attended? And how would you rank them? You may find common interests or maybe learn about new artists that you wouldn’t mind researching. Music is a topic everyone enjoys.. and it’s been known to carry a tune and set a positive tone along with a rewarding experience.

Pets…. Who doesn’t have a story?
Even if you aren’t a pet owner or lover, I am sure you have something to share that would spark up a fun conversation and who knows, maybe you will finally look into owning that lizard or parakeet you were never allowed to have as a child? Could happened…!

Lastly- Nostalgia
Anything nostalgic- cause nothing beats a great nostalgic conversation! For example; a story from your childhood captivating a traditional delicious delicacy or baked delight – also the stories about some of those traditional dishes served that were most unfavorable …. lol
It’s all about creating new memories while brining up some good old personal experiences unto a time capsule of evolution…have fun and be proactive in your journey- by appreciating the memories along with opening up to the new experiences!

Enjoy,
Georgette Thomas, Life Coach